Tuesday, June 25, 2013

Do you feel true love?

True love takes time to take well form. Other thing is love at first sight always not really true love on every occasion. In fact, love at first sight is nothing but an infatuation, sometimes. It’s just a strong romantic and physical feeling.

Sometime true love is hard to define exactly, but there are some signs of true love in a relationship.
If you’re in kind a relationship with someone and want to know if you’re experiencing true love, check whether are there any of these signs in your relationship.

You give every good thing to the relationship in wholeheartedly, without any expectations of getting something back in return from your loved one. Just watching this special person smile out loud fills you with full of happiness, though you’re suffering or having a hard day. You may terribly hurt when your lover did wrong thing to you, but their actions never anger you. You do sacrifices for their happiness, even if they may never know it. As always try to do things and make an effort to improve the relationship, and play a conscious part in trying to please your partner and make them feel loved and special. You can’t ever hurt them. When you’re in love with someone, you can’t even imagine hurting them. Payback is a strong human instinct. So get rid of it.  You keep your promises. When you make a promise to them, no matter what, keep your promise. Even if this person will never find out if you broke their promise. When you experience true love, your moral conscience becomes very strong when. In a good relationship, it’s good to have your own space to grow as individuals. But at the same time, you’d see them as a part of your life. When you think of your future, you can’t help, but see them by your side. you must share their burden. And you do that even if you don’t really need to do so. You if they’re involving with some issue, you’re always willing to give helping hand even when you have your own difficulties to look into. You must pride of them, when they achieve something. Even you failed to achieve same thing.  

If you’re in a relationship and if you are not experiencing above true love signs, you have to more care about your relationship. Perhaps, your relationship hasn’t reached the state of emotional maturity that surpasses physical attraction or the stage of infatuation.

However, if both of you feel you are doing great in your love affair, just go with it. Don’t try to change anything about it. It’s because, selfless and unconditional love takes time to get well form. Remember, you can’t go into the next stage in love if not both of you are ready for it.

But keep remember that, although above things are there, as long as your lover and you are happy and understand each other, you people have such great love!

Wednesday, June 19, 2013

Power of Love

We need love for our mind and body as oxygen and water. It's obvious. The more connected we are, the healthier we will be both physically and emotionally. The less connected we are, the more we are at risk. And we need love since our birth, but this love profile is changing age to age. So if we lose this love line at a point, our life will not stream smoothly. And it’s also true that the less love we have get more depression we are likely to experience in our life. So perhaps love is the best antidepressant in the world.

If we have a close look, most depressed people don't love themselves and they do not be loved by others. And they also are very self-focused, making them less attractive to others and depriving them of opportunities to learn the skills of love. And the people, who are in love, live happily than the others. It’s because, when we have someone to share our sadness and happiness, we don’t need to suffer lonely, in that way we could minimize our sadness and maximize our happiness.  

In a way love is a gift.  It can provide the power for, motivate you to do good things and can improve your self-esteem and self-confidence. Because you know deep in your heart that there is someone in this world that truly loves you for who you are! That love will lift your life style. That love always reminds you, about the meaning of your life.

So do love and be loved as always you could and Feel the power of love.

Saturday, June 15, 2013

Do love & live long!!!

Love could keep us healthy in mentally, physically, socially and spiritually. Did you know that?.......................... Yes it’s true!!!

Practically if we love someone really, it’s obvious we care more about ourselves too. It’s because, to love our loved one, we should be in healthy. To be in healthy and safely, we may not take the unwanted risks like smoking, careless driving, junkie eating habits, drinking alcohol. So this thing will keep us away from unnecessary life threat. So people will often adopt safer behavior when they are coupled up.

Other thing is, loving and being loved will vaccinate you against anxiety. When we in love, the brain produces chemical called dopamine, a feel-good stimulant that is responsible for feeling bliss, optimism and patience.

Some research also shows those people in loving have a lower death rate than single people. Even people who have unhealthy lifestyles tend to live longer than those who lack social and community support.

So love as could as possible, and be healthy and long live!!!

Sunday, June 2, 2013

Is virtual love a true love?

Online dating is becoming largely acceptable today as people become more comfortable with using computers and smart phones for communication. E-mail, chatting, and social sites have increased the comfort level of talking with each other online. The relationships, which we make on these media calls, virtual relationships. Further, if we do love someone who never seen in the real world, but seen only in this virtual environment, it’s a virtual love.  In virtual world we love only to a profile, always it’s not may a real person. but still you have real feelings.

In this case we could be any person which we want to be. In here, all the physical facts are not important, such as occupation, education, physical attraction; even your gender or anything. Not only that, we could love several people simultaneously without any problem at all. Here we have lots of freedom to do love. You could carry your love anywhere you want with your mobile device. You may never feel alone. World was never being like this for the relationships. Specially for to do love.

But the question is; is this real love? In one hand, love is spiritual rather than physical; hence one could say, “Yes…This may a real love”. But honestly, without even touching the other person, could we do love or imagine a real love? the fact is, here we do only love, we don’t see the figure of that person or his social status.

On the other hand…in the real world though we see and do love a real person and even we could touch them, still it may not a true love. still we could cheat the love. So what’s the deference? So the thing is, though it’s a physical or virtual, true love is still depending on our mind and the way of thinking and the way of doing it. What do you think? 

Further, When talk about online relationships we can’t forget the online ---. Dr Cath Mercer, from University College London, said: the survey suggested that couples aged 16 to 44 may be using online ---- or online --- with another known person as a substitute for real life ---. It’s because nowadays, "People are worried about their jobs, worried about money. They are not in the mood for --- or love. But still they use internet as their part of the job, People have tablets and smart phones and they are taking them into the bedroom too, using Twitter and Facebook, answering emails". So all those facts lead to on-line relationships and ---, in the modern society.